MAPs Wanted for Study on Romantic Relationships with Adults

Principal Investigator: Jan Cioe, Ph.D., Psychology Department, University of British Columbia Okanagan, tel: (250) 807-8732, email:

Co-Investigator: Hailee Lewis, Undergraduate Student, Psychology Department, UBC Okanagan, email: Crystal Mundy, Clinical Ph.D. Student, Psychology Department, UBC Okanagan, email:

Study Name: Romantic and Sexual Relationships with Adult Partners among Minor-Attracted Persons

Abstract: The purpose of this study is to examine the reasons minor-attracted persons choose to engage in romantic relationships and sex with adult romantic partners. A romantic relationship with an adult partner is considered to be a relationship between two individuals 18 years old or older which is or was not purely sexual in nature. Minor attraction can be defined as having a dominant sexual interest in children. We hope this study will provide greater understanding of minor attracted persons’ romantic relationships and guide supports for minor-attracted persons in or desiring a relationship with an adult partner.

Description: This study involves completing an online survey. Personal identification information (e.g., full name, address, IP address) will not be recorded. Provided answers will be completely anonymous. However, you can take additional efforts to safeguard your information. This may include utilizing incognito tabs, deleting your browser history, or downloading and using a virtual proxy network to further mask your IP address. You will be free to skip any questions you do not wish to answer without penalty.

This online questionnaire is administered by the UBC-hosted version of Qualtrics. This is fully compliant with the BC Freedom of Information and Protection of Privacy Act (FIPPA) because the survey data are kept secure. Further, the data are stored and backed up in Canada, and are subject to Canadian privacy laws. Data will be kept in password-protected computer files for a minimum of 5 years after publication, as required by the University. The only people who will be able to access these files are Dr. Cioe and his research associates. All associates have signed confidentiality forms. If you are to disclose information that indicates a child is currently at risk, or there is a future risk of abuse or neglect, please be advised that the researcher must, by law, report this information to the appropriate authorities which is why we advise you to refrain from providing identifying information about yourself. However, the researchers will protect the confidentiality of participants to the best of their ability.

Eligibility: You must be 18 years or older and identify as minor attracted. You must be relatively fluent in English. You must also have a desire to be in, have been in, or currently are in a romantic relationship with an adult partner (an individual 18-years or older).

Duration: 30 minutes

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MAPs Wanted for Study on Parenting Experiences or Interest

Principal Investigator: Jan Cioe, Ph.D., Psychology Department, University of British Columbia Okanagan, tel: (250) 807-8732, email:

Co-Investigator: Crystal Mundy, Clinical Ph.D. Student, Psychology Department, University of British Columbia Okanagan, email:

Study Name: Parenting Desires, Intentions, and Experiences Among Minor-Attracted Persons

Abstract: The purpose of this study is to identify how minority stress and stigma influence parenting intentions in the minor-attracted community. Minority stress is stress that is due to the stigma of being part of a minority. Minor attraction can be defined as having a dominant sexual interest in children. We hope to gain a better understanding of how stigma plays a role in parenting decisions. Further, this study seeks how support and services can be best used to assist minor-attracted people in regards to parenting.

Description: This study involves completing an online survey. Personal identification information (e.g., full name, address, IP address) will not be recorded. Provided answers will be completely anonymous. However, you can take additional efforts to safeguard your information. This may include utilizing incognito tabs, deleting your browser history, or downloading and using a virtual proxy network to further mask your IP address. You will be free to skip any questions you do not wish to answer without penalty.

This online questionnaire is administered by the UBC-hosted version of Qualtrics. This is fully compliant with the BC Freedom of Information and Protection of Privacy Act (FIPPA) because the survey data is kept secure. Further, the data is stored and backed up in Canada, and is subject to Canadian privacy laws. Data will be kept in password-protected computer files for a minimum of 5 years after publication, as required by the University. The only people who will be able to access these files are Dr. Cioe and his research associates. All associates have signed confidentiality forms. If you are to disclose information that indicates a child is currently at risk, or there is a future risk of abuse or neglect, please be advised that the researcher must, by law, report this information to the appropriate authorities. However, the researchers will protect the confidentiality of participants to the best of their ability.

Eligibility: You must be 18 years or older and identify as minor attracted. You must be relatively fluent in English and be able to read English at approximately the Grade 10 level.

Duration: 45 minutes

Draw: Following completion of the study, a hotlink will be provided. If you wish to enter a draw for a $50 Amazon Canada gift card, please send your name and email. If you choose to enter the draw, it is advised you to create a disposable email address which you can email the researchers from. We suggest that the disposable email does not include any potentially identifying information. The hotlink is not associated with your provided answers but will indicate that you have participated in the study. If you do not want there to be a record of participation, we advise that you do not participate in this draw. If you wish to withdraw from the study, you are still eligible to enter into the draw by skipping to the end of the survey to the hotlink. Alternatively, you can contact Crystal Mundy to obtain the hotlink.

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MAPs Needed for Input on Educational Program for Therapists

B4U-ACT is collaborating with Canadian researchers who are developing an educational program for therapists who wish to work with MAPs. They are currently seeking input from MAPs about what should be included in such a program. If you are an MAP who meets the study requirements, consider participating. The study announcement is as follows:

We are looking for Minor Attracted Person (MAPs) with a sexual interest in minors under the age of 15 to take part in a study that will inform the development of a workshop aimed at increasing competency among mental health professionals to offer services to MAPs.

As a participant, you would be asked to complete an online, anonymous survey that asks about your opinions of what should be included in such a workshop and your previous experiences with mental health professionals.

You are eligible to participate if you are 18 years or older and if you identify as a MAP who is sexually interested in minors under the age of 15.

Your participation is voluntary and would take approximately 20 minutes to complete. By participating in this study, you will help inform the development of a workshop that would increase competency to offer mental health services to MAPs who may be interested in mental health services.

Interested in participating? Please visit


Kailey Roche, MSc. Candidate
Department of Psychology, Saint Mary’s University, Halifax, NS

Dr.  Skye Stephens, Assistant Professor
Department of Psychology, Saint Mary’s University, Halifax, NS

This study has been reviewed by the Saint Mary’s University Research Ethics Board (#19-093) and was developed in collaboration with B4U-ACT (

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MAP Subjects Needed: Study on Belonging

The following study is being conducted by a Danish graduate student with whom B4U-ACT is collaborating. The study concerns a topic that is very relevant to the happiness and contentment of many if not most MAPs. MAPs who are interested in participating may click on the link given in the description below.

A Matter of Belonging

The purpose of this study is to collect data that provide knowledge about the lived experiences of belonging for minor-attracted persons (MAPs).

Due to prejudices and general stigma, many MAPs hide parts of their lives and do not share their thoughts and feelings related to their sexuality. The intention of this study is to create awareness on the subject of belonging, and how it influences MAPs’ well-being and self-acceptance.

I’m seeking participants who will share their thoughts and experiences of belonging. It could be the experience of belonging in a virtual world, offline, or maybe it’s your experiences of not belonging.

The study is divided into three sections to gain an understanding on how your put your life into words, and how you believe MAPs are viewed by society. This would help get a better understanding of how you choose to live as a MAP, and how you choose your relations to be.

If you would like to contribute to this research, simply fill out the online questionnaire here:

Please be assured that everything that you disclose in the questionnaire will be completely anonymous and will be handled with utmost respect and care.

If you have comments or questions, don’t hesitate to contact me at

Marie Ballentin

Master Thesis in Educational Sociology – Aarhus University, Denmark

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Review of Michael Seto’s AASECT Plenary Talk on Pedophilia

At the 2018 Annual Conference of the American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors, and Therapists (AASECT), Dr. Michael Seto presented a plenary talk titled “What Do We Know about Pedophilia?”. The talk mainly addressed characteristics of the attraction to children or young adolescents, but it also touched on issues related to assessment and treatment. As an organization dedicated to improving mental health services available to people with such attractions, B4U-ACT believes it is important to point out exemplary aspects of his talk, as well as those aspects that could have been improved. First a note about terminology: We use the term “minor-attracted people” (MAPs) to refer to this population, while recognizing its shortcomings (as pointed out by Dr. Seto), for reasons to be addressed later.

First, it is helpful to consider some context. For several decades, MAPs have felt stigmatized, “othered,” and even demonized by society, including the mental health community, due to language and descriptions that have suggested they were dangerous, devious, inscrutable, and fundamentally different from “normal” people. This has in part resulted from the fact that the substantial number of MAPs who do not engage sexually with children rarely come to the attention of authorities, clinicians, or the public. In fact, numerous studies have found that, in general, MAPs are not different in psychological make-up from the adult-attracted population, other than in the age of the people to whom they are attracted. In particular, they are no more prone to violence or aggression. Nevertheless, MAPs do suffer deeply from the stigma against them, but that very same stigma, together with a sense that the mental health system takes an adversarial stance toward them, prevent them from seeking assistance when needed. It is in this context that Dr. Seto’s influential talk was significant; it could either increase or reduce this perception by the extent to which it “othered” MAPs, by the terminology it used, and by the rationale it offered for treatment.


Fortunately, Dr. Seto abandoned false stereotypes commonly disseminated in the past that “othered” MAPs by claiming, for example, that their lives revolve around finding devious means for accessing and abusing large numbers of children. Instead, he emphasized the crucial distinction between attraction and behavior—noting that many MAPs do not behave sexually with children—and pointed out some of the similarities they share with the general population. For example, he acknowledged that, like people preferentially attracted to adults, they commonly feel emotional, not just sexual, attraction, that these feelings typically become apparent in puberty or adolescence, and that they can be conceptualized as constituting a sexual orientation. He estimated that up to 1.2 million American men may be preferentially attracted to prepubescent children (but did not mention how many additional may be attracted to pubescent children) and noted that they can be found in all walks of life. It was particularly encouraging when he noted similarities with LGBT people in terms of stigma, suggesting that knowledge about helping the latter can be applied to the former.

Along with these positive aspects of Dr. Seto’s talk, there were also some clarifications and improvements that could have been made. Things left unsaid and subtle interpretations can have a powerful effect on how stigmatized groups are perceived—effects that members of the majority don’t notice because it’s so much a part of common thinking, but to which members of the group in question are very sensitive. These omissions and interpretations are important to understand in the interest of reducing the stigma that prevents MAPs from getting their mental health needs met.

First, there were some relevant facts Dr. Seto could have mentioned that would have more completely counteracted inaccurate perceptions of difference. One is the evidence (such as Ray Blanchard’s work) that most men preferentially attracted to adults also feel some sexual attraction to young adolescents and prepubescent children, albeit at successively lesser intensities. This would have demonstrated that MAPs’ sexuality is not so bizarre and inscrutable as people believe. He could have also mentioned that hebephilia (attraction to younger adolescents) was rejected from inclusion in the DSM 5 by the DSM leaders at least partly on the grounds that attraction to young adolescents is not so unusual. Dr. Seto instead said that some people—it was unclear whether he meant researchers—reject the existence of hebephilia. However, the debate among leading researchers and clinicians has not been about whether hebephilia exists, but about whether it should be considered a disorder.

After noting that MAPs come from all walks of life and make up an estimated one percent of the male population, it would have been helpful to point out that this means that some of the clinicians and educators attending his talk, and possibly some of his own fellow researchers, are likely preferentially attracted to children. B4U-ACT volunteers personally know of six such practitioners—including a sex offender treatment provider—and one such psychological researcher. In addition, it is likely that many of those in the audience have children or other relatives who are attracted to children. Since the well-being of youth is of concern, it is also helpful to recognize that at a typical middle school or high school with a thousand students, Dr. Seto’s one percent male estimate means there are probably about five adolescent boys in the student body preferentially attracted to prepubescent children. By including these facts in his presentation, Dr. Seto could have helped to challenge the false us-vs.-them dichotomy.

In addition, there were some facts that Dr. Seto seemed to interpret in ways that can contribute to the perception of MAPs as fundamentally different, but that can instead be interpreted in less stigmatizing ways. For example, he referred to two “forms” of pedophilia: exclusive and non-exclusive, suggesting this is a peculiar characteristic of MAPs. In contrast, it is our experience that there is a spectrum of preference, similar to other spectra in sexuality, such as the heterosexuality-homosexuality spectrum. The reality is quite complicated, since people have varying amounts of attraction (along spectra) to different genders and ages (infant, prepubescent, pubescent, adolescent, adult, middle age, elderly, as Dr. Seto mentioned). Trying to fit people into a small number of neat categories without acknowledging this complexity can be unrealistic, misleading, and stigmatizing.

Dr. Seto also mentioned brain differences, using a diagram showing that the parts of the brain more commonly activated by the sight of attractive adults instead are activated by children in the brains of MAPs. However, this seems to show similarity rather than difference! It is analogous to the fact that gay men’s brains respond to men the same way straight men’s brains respond to women. Maybe Dr. Seto meant that these phenomena are similar, but that wasn’t clear since gay men’s brains weren’t mentioned.


Terminology can reduce or increase stigma. The term “pedophilia” is especially problematic because it is almost universally understood as synonymous with child sexual abuse, even by clinicians and some researchers. Pedophiles and pedophilia are thoroughly reviled by all of society, including most mental health practitioners. It’s hard to imagine the term ever being rehabilitated; it seems similar to (but more extreme than) the terms “moron” and “idiot” in a previous century—originally precise clinical terms based on IQ, but eventually abandoned in favor of “mentally retarded person,” which then gave way to “person with intellectual disabilities,” when “retarded” itself acquired usage as an insult (though milder than “pedophile”). This is one of the reasons B4U-ACT uses the term “minor attracted person.”

However, Dr. Seto criticized the term “MAP” on two grounds: first that it is vague (it includes attraction to older adolescents, which is not considered clinically problematic), and second that it is a euphemism. He preferred the term “person with pedophilia or hebephilia.” His use of person-first language is to be commended, and his first criticism seems reasonable. But as already mentioned, “pedophilia” is problematic due to its stigmatizing connotations, and his second criticism is questionable. A euphemism is a word or phrase used in place of one that is unpleasant. Claiming that “MAP” is a euphemism can come across as saying that researchers need to be clear about how unpleasant and undesirable MAPs are. One would probably not want to criticize “intellectual disability” as a euphemism for “idiocy.”

Regardless of the term used, researchers who wish to reduce stigma could benefit from hearing from the stigmatized people themselves about the stigmatizing effects of a particular choice of terminology. At the minimum, if clinicians and researchers cannot give up the term “pedophilia,” they will be amenable to working with MAPs on an anti-stigma campaign to educate researchers, clinicians, and the public about the correct meaning of the term. B4U-ACT and other MAP organizations stand ready to begin such endeavors with Dr. Seto and other researchers.

Rationale for Treatment

MAPs who seek mental health services want to be treated like any other client and receive assistance to meet their needs, rather than to devise strategies to protect other people from them. Like other clients, most MAPs we have met do not have difficulty refraining from abusing children, but seek help dealing with the results of stigma and marginalization, such as self-hatred, depression, anxiety, suicidal feelings, lack of intimacy or sexual outlet, perceiving a need to live a double life, and feelings of alienation from society, friends, and family. In addition, like other clients, they may seek help dealing with issues unrelated to their attractions, but still want to be open about their sexuality.

Unfortunately, however, most research about MAPs and mental health services for them start from the assumption that MAPs constitute a serious risk to children, and that this should be the primary concern of researchers and clinicians. This assumption is the root of stigma. Therapists who put primary emphasis on preventing MAPs from offending are subordinating the psychological needs of their clients, sending the message that these needs are not as important as they would be for “normal” clients. MAPs sense they are being seen as risks or objects to be controlled rather than as people. This feels dehumanizing and adversarial, as if the therapist is an agent of law enforcement and social control rather than a helping professional. It is also discriminatory, since other clients are not treated this way. All of this, of course, intensifies rather than ameliorates stigma and mental health problems, alienating MAPs from the mental health system.

Compounding this, many MAPs are aware of the treatment methods that historically have been used coercively on sexual minorities as a result of such a social-control approach. These include being forced to self-identify as dangerous and incurably “deviant,” to submit to phallometry (a procedure often seen as degrading and stigmatizing, whereby a device is connected to the penis to measure erection while the person is subjected to sexual images or audio recordings), and to repeatedly undergo some kind of arousal reconditioning method such as aversion therapy or covert sensitization to associate fear or revulsion with their sexuality. MAPs are aware that similar methods have been used in modern times on MAPs, typically under coercion, including on young adolescents (one of whom attended a B4U-ACT workshop as a young adult), and have reportedly led to severe trauma and other psychiatric problems. MAPs may fear that researchers and therapists will approve of the use of such methods on them.

In light of this, it was encouraging when Dr. Seto recognized that many MAPs don’t abuse children, and that they face stigma similar to that faced by LGBT people. However, it was disheartening that most of the rest of his talk confirmed MAPs’ fears of social-control rather than wellness treatment rationales and methods.

First, Dr. Seto emphasized several times that his main goal was to prevent sexual abuse, and that this was the reason for treatment. No mention was made of the idea that MAPs’ mental health is important in its own right. He said he wanted to prevent children’s integrity from being violated by adults, but did not acknowledge how that integrity, in the case of young adolescents attracted to younger children (whom he acknowledged exist), has been violated by society’s revulsion for them, and by coercive treatment programs that have used shame, phallometry, and arousal reconditioning. This seemed like a double standard, compounding the perception that dehumanization of and discrimination toward MAPs is considered acceptable.

Emphasizing the social-control rationale is frequently defended by arguing that audiences (and funders) are not yet ready to see and treat MAPs the way they do other client populations, so can only be motivated by their desire to prevent CSA. However, this response accepts and reinforces discrimination, rather than confronting it, contrary to professional codes of ethics.

Second, at one point in his presentation, Dr. Seto showed a slide picturing a public webpage with hateful comments directed toward MAPs, such as “The only cure for pedophilia is a bullet in the head.” MAP attendees might expect such a slide to be given as an illustration of the horrific stigma they face, so it was a bit of a shock when Dr. Seto instead commented only that society responds to CSA after the fact, rather than trying to prevent it.

Third, Dr. Seto mentioned the German Project Dunkelfeld as an exemplary treatment program that should be adopted in other countries. While there are some laudable aspects to its implementation, the program makes clear its primary goal of preventing offending and its roots in traditional social-control-oriented American sex offender treatment. It makes little use of mainstream client-centered therapeutic and sexological knowledge and can be expected to intensify stigma and shame due to its dominant and recurring theme of MAP sexuality as inherently destructive. It should be noted that Project Dunkelfeld runs a similar program for children ages 12-17, again suggesting a double standard that children who are attracted to younger children should be subject to social-control treatment that ignores harm to their mental health.


Also confirming MAPs’ fears of a social-control perspective, Dr. Seto mentioned phallometry as a useful assessment method. For reasons already mentioned, most MAPs perceive this procedure as a dehumanizing, unethical method used to force a diagnosis out of an unwilling client. In his talk, Dr. Seto noted that assessment of pedophilia is ideally based on an interview, but in a clinical or forensic setting, clients are not forthcoming, so phallometry must be used. He acknowledged the unpleasantness of the procedure, but not its history with LGBT people or its serious ethical ramifications, which can sound to MAPs like a whitewashing of its problematic nature.

In fact Dr. Seto seemed to approve of the adversarial use of phallometry. If the client is not forthcoming, does that not mean the client must be resisting diagnosis? This would be understandable, since in a forensic situation it could result in more severe punishment, and in a non-forensic situation, the stigma is so severe that the client may fear clinician revulsion, unethical treatment, or violation of confidentiality. Doesn’t that mean that the phallometry would be done against the client’s will? Is this ethical? Perhaps coerced diagnosis is routinely done in forensic settings with other disorders (if so, this needs to be clarified), but it’s especially unclear how it can be justified in a non-forensic setting.

Dr. Seto seemed to justify phallometry by saying that it predicts recidivism. Of course, “recidivism” is a law enforcement term, not a therapeutic one, again confirming a social-control rationale. In addition, even if phallometry has probabilistic predictive validity on groups of people, its use to predict an individual’s behavior calls to mind the ethically dubious concept of “pre-crime.” Even if there is some compelling ethical and therapeutic justification for phallometry, it has never been clarified to the MAP community. Without that, promotion of its continued use will intensify MAPs’ feelings of stigma and alienation from (and anger toward) the mental health profession, especially in light of alternatives.

What are these alternatives? Assuming that the helping professional’s primary objective is the well-being of their client (as specified in professional codes of ethics), it would seem most effective for the clinician to facilitate a trusting, therapeutic relationship so the client will be honest in a clinical interview. Not only that, many ethics codes state that the professional should advocate for the client; in this case, that would include protesting unjust social and legal factors that interfere with the therapeutic relationship by stigmatizing or punishing clients more severely on the basis of a mental health diagnosis.


Dr. Seto had an excellent opportunity to improve the knowledge and attitudes of sex educators and therapists regarding MAPs, and thereby reduce stigma and build MAPs’ trust in the profession. He took a small step toward this goal. He began dismantling the entrenched mythology that MAPs are fundamentally different from other people by abandoning explicit stereotypes and pointing out similarities between MAPs and the general population. Yet he could have done this even more effectively by noting some additional crucial facts, and by interpreting other facts more accurately. He could have acknowledged the stigmatizing nature of current terminology and committed to addressing the problem. To the extent that Dr. Seto’s talk was indicative of the direction the field is taking regarding MAPs, it suggests that researchers and clinicians are not yet fully aware of the ways they speak about MAPs that stigmatize them.

Commendably, Dr. Seto pointed out the stigma that adult and adolescent MAPs face, but he was not yet able to give up the traditional social-control paradigm in favor of one that sees MAPs as similar to other clients—valuable humans deserving of compassionate care that meets their needs. Dr. Seto, while encouraging his audience to reduce stigma, was embracing a paradigm that perpetuates that very stigma. He and other leaders, due to their influence in the field, could significantly build the trust of MAPs if they were to advocate a paradigm shift, turning away from the language, perspectives, concepts, and techniques of social control/law enforcement, toward therapeutic ones. This is probably their most important task, since the social-control paradigm is the fundamental source of the stigma they wish to eliminate.

The shortcomings pointed out here are not surprising, considering that Dr. Seto likely spoke without input from the people the talk was about. In general, it is helpful for researchers and practitioners to seek the perspectives of those they endeavor to study, treat, and speak about, particularly when they want to help them feel more comfortable working with them. There is a certain amount of wisdom in the slogan: “Nothing about us without us.”

Dr. Seto’s response:

I appreciate getting any feedback — whether praise or criticism — on my plenary and how it was perceived by the audience, especially from any persons that I’m directly talking about. It’s the best way for me to learn and grow as a researcher and educator.

I’d like to respond to some of the points, as part of a dialogue:

I appreciate the positive comments regarding my efforts to educate regarding the distinction between sexual attraction to children and sexual behavior involving children, introduce facts about sexual attraction to children, and discuss stigma.

I mentioned but did not sufficiently emphasize when discussing my criticism of the term MAPs that I think the term “child attracted persons” or CAPs would be more precise and more direct because many of the issues that I discussed are not pertinent to those individuals who are preferentially attracted to older adolescents. I understand the criticisms around the term pedophilia given the clinical, forensic, and public/social significance. At the same time, this is the term used in the most common mental health nosologies (DSM-5 and ICD-11) and I understood I was speaking to a primarily clinical audience who would be familiar with this term and would encounter it in their professional conduct.

I appreciate the criticism that I could have said more about the spectra of sexual attractions across age/maturity categories when discussing the DSM distinction between exclusive and nonexclusive forms. I also agree that I could have said more at many points in the talk, e.g., access to treatment by MAPs in its own right.

I had thought about explicitly stating the likely presence of some child attracted persons in the audience given there were hundreds of men in attendance (the 1% guesstimate applies only to men, the likely prevalence among women is much lower; we have no idea about the prevalence in non-binary individuals), but ironically, I held back because [it was] mentioned to me before my plenary that there were MAPs in attendance and I thought this might have made these individuals self-conscious. This to me is clearly an example of how consulting MAPs beforehand would have been helpful, to know if mentioning there were MAPs in attendance would have been perceived as acknowledgment or as “othering” (or perhaps both).

Regarding the slide showing the very hateful public comments, I know that I had included that slide with the very specific purpose of illustrating how powerful the public stigma is. I am sure that I made this point in showing the slide, noting how angry and frightened many people are when they hear about pedophilia, and I’m confident that my other point, that society tends to react after child sexual abuse has occurred, was made at a different point in my talk. I apologize if my point was not sufficiently clear because I would not have included the slide otherwise. My other regret about this slide is that I do not think I gave a specific or sufficiently clear trigger warning about the violence reflected in the screenshots of public posts, especially since I knew there were MAPs in attendance.

Regarding my “social control” perspective, I mentioned several times that my primary goal is the prevention of sexual offenses against children — so that it was clear to the audience that I spoke from my perspective as a clinical and forensic psychologist and researcher who has worked in the sexual offending prevention area for 20+ years. I am also interested in sexual attraction to children as its own topic, but I do not see myself as an advocate for MAPs, and my primary goal is not the mental health or well-being of MAPs, though I certainly wish for more human and compassionate treatment, as I explicitly mentioned in my talk. It is in this context that I discussed topics such as recidivism or phallometric testing of sexual arousal to children, not as something recommended for everyone but specifically for those individuals who have sexually offended against children, especially if they deny any sexual attraction to children. Yes, this is adversarial. To clarify, I would not agree with the phallometric testing of self-referred individuals who are seeking counseling or other help. After all, the person is coming forward with their concerns and “we” (clinical professionals) would not know about them otherwise. Indeed, I had hoped my talk would reduce barriers to treatment, hence my points about the emerging evidence regarding attitudes of therapists and barriers to treatment and what AASECT members could offer.

Michael Seto, Ph.D., C.Psych.
Director, Forensic Research Unit, The Royal’s Institute of Mental Health Research
Director of Forensic Rehabilitation Research, Royal Ottawa Health Care Group
Adjunct: University of Toronto, Ryerson University, Carleton University, University of Ottawa
Editor-in-Chief, Sexual Abuse (
Twitter: @MCSeto

Richard Kramer’s reply:

I’d like to thank Dr. Seto for his response. As I understand it, sexuality and mental health researchers who study particular populations generally do so for the purpose of understanding issues regarding their sexuality or mental health, for the ultimate purpose of enhancing their well-being. I’m not sure whether this would be called advocating for the population they’re studying, but regardless, I appreciate Dr. Seto’s honesty saying that unlike in other areas of research, the well-being of the population he studies is not his primary area of expertise or interest, nor was it the focus of his talk.

In this case, it would seem that the plenary’s title was confusing or misleading, since it seemed to suggest the topic was attraction to children in general, rather than about preventing abuse. These *are* two different things; the assumption that attraction to children equates to sexual danger to them is the root of the stigma and hatred directed toward child-attracted people (CAPs), including adolescents. Perhaps a better title for the plenary would have been something like “What We Know About Preventing Offending by People with Pedophilia.” As it was, it would be similar to a talk entitled “What We Know About Mental Illness” that neglected understanding mental illness for the sake of people with mental illness, and instead assumed and implied they were dangerous by primarily focusing on their risk to others. NAMI would rightly be upset about such a talk.

The problem was compounded by the fact that this was a plenary talk given by a leading researcher, so that it was much more widely attended than two other presentations about CAPs which reduced stigma by treating CAPs the way other people are treated and addressed broader mental health and sexuality issues.

Leading researchers, institutions, and organizations work to enhance mental health, prevent suicide, and protect people from institutional or societal abuse and hatred. However, they all tacitly exclude adolescents or adults attracted to children from these missions, sending a clear message that these people are not considered completely human. Imagine a 13- or 14-year old boy who realizes he’s attracted to prepubescent children, who knows he’s a “pedophile” (not unusual as Dr. Seto noted). Imagine his thoughts when he sees the following, published recently by a researcher: “Horror and disgust shouldn’t be our only response to pedophilia,” implying that horror and disgust for this boy are acceptable, even desirable, even though they are not enough.

Dr. Seto said his mission is to “prevent children’s integrity from being violated by adults,” but it appears there may be a double standard. It is not clear that he and similar researchers have the same concern for 13- and 14-year olds who are attracted to younger children and are therefore verbally and emotionally violated by adults (politicians, law enforcement officials, journalists, and even mental health professionals) who make derogatory or condemning public statements about “pedophiles.” Only when researchers publicly demonstrate the same concern for these children as they do for peer-attracted children–and publicly acknowledge their full humanity and dignity–will their concern for children seem genuine. Speakers with such inclusive messages at future conferences organized by AASECT and similar organizations would make a tremendous difference in the education of therapists and educators.

Richard Kramer
Science & Education Director
B4U-ACT, Inc.
P.O. Box 1754
Westminster, MD  21158

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B4U-ACT Holds 2018 Symposium

B4U-ACT held its second research-oriented symposium, entitled “Expanding the Focus of Research on Minor-Attracted People,” on Saturday, September 22, 2018, in Baltimore, MD. Approximately 50 people attended, including minor-attracted persons (MAPs), mental health professionals, researchers, and advocates. The program included a keynote talk, four paper presentations, and three discussion sessions. For the first time at a B4U-ACT event, a second meeting day was set aside for informal discussions from 10 am to 5 pm. This proved popular, with about half of the Saturday attendees also attending at least part of the day on Sunday. More details about the program, and slide shows from the paper presentations, are available on the symposium webpage.

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Male MAPs needed for new online study

Male MAPs are needed to complete a survey that examines wanted and unwanted sexual experiences during childhood as well as cognitive development (and other developmentally relevant factors) among adult men with different sexual orientations. In contrast to most research in this area, the researchers want to shed light on the experiences of community men with and without sexual interests in minors instead of forensic samples. For every participant who completes the survey, the researchers will donate $1.50 to B4U-ACT (max. $300).

Principal Investigator: Alexander Schmidt, Johannes Gutenberg University Mainz, Germany, Academic Officer (in collaboration with Sara Jahnke, Friedrich-Schiller-University Jena, Post-doc & Juergen Hoyer, Technische Universität Dresden, Germany, Professor)

If you are a male MAP who wishes to participate in the study, please click on the following survey link:

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Why call someone by what we don’t want them to be?

Why call someone by what we don’t want them to be? The ethics of labeling in forensic/correctional psychology
Gwenda M. Willis
School of Psychology, The University of Auckland, Auckland, New Zealand

Labeling a person by their past behavior or a criminal conviction is commonplace throughout forensic and correctional psychology. Labels including ‘offender’ and ‘sex offender’ infiltrate academic writing and conference presentations, names of professional organizations and treatment programmes and, at times, traverse therapeutic work. That such labels are frequently used and rarely advocated against suggests that helping professionals either (i) don’t recognize labeling as an ethical issue, or (ii) don’t consider it their role to challenge. The current paper aims to encourage critical reflection on the use of labels in forensic and correctional psychology. Key concerns are illustrated through a focus on labels commonly assigned to individuals who have sexually abused, where labeling is especially prolific. The scope of labeling is reviewed, and implications for rehabilitation and reintegration discussed. Next, an analysis of the ethics of labeling individuals on the basis of criminal convictions, past behavior or psychological phenomena is presented. It is argued that the use of such labels contradict core ethical principles including beneficence and nonmaleficence, respect for the dignity of all persons, and responsibilities to society. A de-labelling movement for forensic/correctional psychology and related fields is proposed.

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Call for Proposals for Fall 2018 Research Symposium

B4U-ACT is now accepting presentation proposals for its fall 2018 symposium entitled “Research on Minor-Attracted People: Expanding the Focus.” The theme of the symposium is the importance of studies that move beyond abuse prevention toward understanding the development and well-being of MAPs. The keynote speaker is Dr. Jill Levenson, PhD, MSW, LCSW, Professor of Social Work at Barry University. For more information, and instructions for submitting a proposal, click here.

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